Why Do Some People Choose A Crematorium Over Burial?

There are a
myriad of reasons for an individual to prefer cremation over burial. Firstly,
we’ll address the more practical elements including cost and flexibility, as
well as spiritual or environmental factors. With this in mind, it’s no wonder
that cremation rates have surpassed those of burial for the first time ever.

It’s
difficult to even contemplate financial matters following a loss, but
unfortunately, cost is an important matter that needs to be addressed. Even if
your loved one set aside money in preparation for a funeral, the bills add up
quickly during the planning and organisation of a funeral. In the United
Kingdom, the average burial costs come in at around roughly £1,750, while the
average cremation costs around £660. That said, there are also various other
associated fees for traditional burials, these are known as disbursement costs.

Final
arrangements are extremely personal. For some people, this stems from an
extension of religious beliefs, and people often put a great deal of thought
into their wishes. It’s important to try to understand the more intimate
reasons a person may choose to have a cremation.

Some people
see cremation as a spiritual element of their passing hence the well-known
phrase, ‘ashes to ashes, dust to dust’. A person may also wish for their ashes
to be scattered:

●Into the wind at a location they
loved.

●In the ocean.

●At a park or a scenic rural setting.

●In their back garden, close to home.

●Somewhere with special significance,
perhaps the spot where they were married or grew up.

The concept
of the spirit passing on is frequently tied with religious beliefs even though
there are many religions which do not advocate cremation. Although there has
been a decline in organised worship in recent years, it’s still a huge part of
many people’s lives, and while some are dedicated to a strict doctrine, others
instead incorporate modern ideas into their faith and this could well include
cremation.

A
traditional burial can have a negative impact on the environment for several
reasons, this includes:

●Bodies are frequently embalmed in
strong chemicals.

●Caskets are not completely
biodegradable.

●Cement burial vaults often surround
even eco-friendly caskets.

●Strong embalming chemicals can
ultimately end up polluting water.

●There simply isn’t enough room to
bury the world’s population.

So much
comes from the Earth in life and many people feel compelled to give something
back. Cremation bypasses the burial process and some people actually request
having a tree planted in their honour. For many, it’s just a matter of not
taking up space after passing on.

There is
certainly evidence that cremation is less harmful than burial and it is
definitely less hazardous to the environment in the long term, especially if
you choose a green cremation. Nevertheless, to date, the Environmental
Protection Agency (EPA) hasn’t placed restrictions on the general process, nor
burials, so again, it’s a highly subjective matter.

Some people
find solace in being laid to rest, but others find it an unsettling idea.
Claustrophobia is something that many people suffer and can cause someone to
feel frightened about being buried for eternity, especially with visitors
walking over them. Even someone who does not have claustrophobia may feel
overwhelmed by this notion.

Although
it’s completely natural, there are also people who aren’t comfortable with the
decomposing process. Though it’s typically been preserved prior to burial, the
chemicals only delay the process. Ultimately, the body breaks down, and no one
wants to imagine it for themselves or a loved one.

Just like
anything else, burial isn’t right for everyone. Some feel very strongly about
their fears or anxieties around it, and as a friend or relative, it’s important
to respect this.

Coping with
personal objections can be very difficult and regardless of their best efforts,
some loved ones will struggle with the idea of cremation. It’s necessary for
all to show each other compassion and understanding, even amid disagreements.

If you are
organising your own final arrangements, be sure to discuss your plans with
those around you. Whether you have a terminal illness or are planning far
ahead, your family should understand your preference ahead of time. Be ready to
hear out their concerns and answer their questions.

You may need
to offer some members of the family time to understand your decision. They
could be reconciling an issue with their religious or personal beliefs, so
allow time to process. Try to take an honest and empathetic approach during
this time.

If there is
an objection to cremation surrounding a recent loss in the family, gather
everyone for a calm discussion. If your loved one has stated a preference for
cremation, there isn’t much room for debate here. Nevertheless, it’s important
to let everyone express their feelings.

If you’re
familiar with your loved one’s specific reasoning for wanting a cremation, let
those around you know. If you are uncertain, open the subject up for a
civilized chat. Allow yourselves time for understanding, especially for those
struggling most with the idea of cremation.

Many of us
live busy lives and, taking this into consideration, this can sometimes make it
difficult to plan and carry out a traditional burial service. For that reason,
cremation offers portability and much more flexibility in the way that a
memorial service is a little different. In contrast to a traditional burial,
cremation can be performed much quicker, and the memorial service can be held
at any time, as much as many weeks later. For these reasons, many families
choose cremation, while other people hold services to accompany the cremation
too.